Good morning friends of the internet, and THANK YOU so much for being here!

I'm 43 today! "Congratulations to you for continuing to remain alive" as Manflesh likes to say. I'll mostly be doing this:

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Something for me:

Every year on my birthday I have a request for you, the people that read these words, some of you have been with me for years and this small list is one of my most treasured sources of wisdom.

It's the one time of year I ask "what do you want to learn from me?"

Maybe nothing, that's ok too. If you are just here for the occasional functional woo, I'm happy to oblige. The fist time I asked I had an overwhelming amount of requests for magic and witchery, which was a real surprise! But then I made Creatrix, which exceeded all my hopes. I've made a google form you can fill out here (I expect it to take 90 seconds or less) or you can just reply here and tell me anything you want. I read every response.

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Something for you:

As much as I encourage people to enjoy self-indulgence, I still want to give you something, too. So please enjoy these links at your leisure:

As a thank you for being here, I want you to have access to this big gorgeous list of pleasures that we made together collaboratively. There are over 200 suggestions and please feel free to add more- or to refer to this when you need ideas:

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As well, together we created this big gorgeous list of restorative practices. This is particularly helpful when you KNOW you need to do something restorative but you're too damn tired to try and remember what the hell as restorative practice might be:

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Thank you. I love you.

Don't go back to sleep.

xoRachel